As a lover of true crime, this book was one I definitely wanted to read. While it might not be the typical true crime that I normally read, kidnapping and holding a girl captive for 10 years is just as much true crime as the serial killer stories I enjoy reading. Tanya Kach was 14 when she ran away from home for the umpteenth time, this time into the arms of her school security guard, Tom Hose in 1996. It was the last time she was ever seen until 10 years later when she finally gained the courage to escape. With the help of her attorney, she penned this book as a record of what she endured during that time.
As a mother this was a hard read. This girls' parents were horrible, there was no way around that. Her family all but abandoned her, her school ignored her inappropriate relationship with the security guard and the police just kept sending her back to her father and her stepmother who hated her. I cannot imagine treating my child the way these people treated Tanya. It's no wonder she ran into the arms of a man who initially made her feel loved and wanted. Unfortunately, this was not to last, and her torture started not long after she moved in with him.
He lived at home with his ailing parents and son who was the same age as Tanya. She was forced to remain perfectly quiet while she was up in his room even going so far as to hiding in the closet when the room was unlocked, using a bucket as a toilet and only showering a few times a week when he'd smuggle her down to the basement in the dead of night. Her diet was very poor and over the course of the 10 years she was there she suffered many long-lasting health issues which were not addressed because he was holding her captive. He had brainwashed her into believing that no one loved or wanted her but him and he was her savior and if she ever left him, he'd kill her.
When his father fell ill and needed a caretaker, Tom Hose had the idea that she could be the caretaker under an assumed name, and she was allowed to come out of the room. She started gaining more independence and eventually told a neighbor who she really was. Tom was then arrested, and she was free. However, even though she was free from her captor, she was still very much a prisoner, having been sent back to her father and stepmother's house. She started to live her life again, getting her GED and starting college but financial independence was far off for a while. I found myself yelling at her parents in my head. At one point, after the trial and Tom Hose was convicted, her father held a press conference at his house and told her that "she had had her time in the spotlight and now it was his". So many people around her took advantage of her after her escape, even blaming her for the whole thing.
This is a story of sadness, abandonment, faith, love and perseverance. Her faith in God not only got her through the time with Tom, but also the trial and tribulations that would come after she escaped. Tanya came out of this ordeal a much stronger person than she was before. It should not have taken the course that it did. There were those that knew she was being held by Tom Hose, his son and a friend of his Judy. The police had ample opportunity to check him out as did her parents. There was no reason for this to have happened the way that it did, and it makes you wonder just how many kids this happens to through the years. I personally am vigilant when it comes to who my kids have contact with, I cannot imagine not caring that your child is missing for 10 years. It's a great book and well worth the read.